Elvis Presley, Michael Jackson, and most recently, Whitney
Houston: all died prematurely with toxic
substances in their system. Did they
ever hear of Marilyn Monroe, home, alone with a bottle of barbiturates on a
Saturday night? The death of each of
these gifted people and many more creative artists from alcohol and drugs are a
loss of unique talents which extend the bounds of human nature. Their extraordinary gift brought them fame and
wealth. Why did they have to succumb to substance abuse? What goes wrong? What were their doctors
doing?
I have not been privileged to treat the Whitney Houston’s of
the world in my career. But I have cared
for many individuals who dealt with inordinate professional and personal stress
in their lives and continued their high octane performance without needing
drugs to cope. These are men and women
from all strata of our society and include clergy, senators, judges, deans, chair
persons, scientists, professors, teachers and master physicians. I saw the
difference between these admired and accomplished people and others who were
addicted to drugs.
I had plenty of experience with drug abusing patients. I am
the product of inner city hospitals:
Newark’s Martland Hospital, the Jersey City Medical Center and the East
Orange Veteran Administration Medical Center of the riotous 1960 era when I was
a medical student. I further trained at
Kings County Hospital Center in Brooklyn and the Bronx Municipal Hospital
Center. The Battle of the Bronx was so
intense and demanding in the early 1970’s that the Albert Einstein Medical
School, which oversaw my education, was able to defer my 1A draft
classification to work in the Bronx rather than in Viet Nam. I cared for patients with the complications
of alcohol and cigarette addiction, the acute flooding of blood in the lungs
caused by heroin overdose and the deep coma of patients with barbiturate
overdoses or suicide attempts. I cared
for many patients with the complication of intravenous drug abuse which results
in hepatitis, heart valve infections, AIDS and other esoteric infections.
I am indebted to these patients who helped me develop my
skills as a physician. How do they differ from my well adjusted patients? I often observed the absence of enriching
interpersonal relationships in these patients who needed love more than others.
Their childhoods were predictably chaotic as their parents were usually
unstable. Chiefly the patient had an
inability to suppress the hedonistic or pleasure seeking impulses of the brain.
Together these brought the patient poverty in circumstance, body and mind.
I recall a patient who required heart surgery to replace his
infected aortic heart valve, caused by his habit of giving himself intravenous
narcotic injections. These patients routinely reuse and share their needles
which cause them to contaminate themselves.
After a successful operation, he
returned to the hospital several months later, again with an infected aortic
valve. He had resumed injecting crack, a combination of heroin and cocaine. I asked
him: “Why? Wasn’t one near death experience with your
first infected heart valve, enough of a warning that this might kill you.”
“Doctor, you have no idea of the stress I experience.” I had to
treat him again to clear the infection and convince a heart surgeon to insert another
aortic valve. I turned to the resident
physician in training who was caring for the patient with me. I said: “You are working over 80 hours a
week. You work with 20 patients a day.
You have to make 100 right decisions a day to care for them. Why are you
not taking drugs to cope?” He was then
27 years old and has gone on to have an exceptional career as a physician’s
physician in Princeton, NJ. He
said: “I have been prepared to handle stress.”
That preparation began in childhood. His parents taught him that he was special but
that he was still govern by the rules of healthy living. He had to keep his body strong and fit to deal
with the challenges of his education, his relationships and ultimately his
work. He can not disappoint the family who
gave him their values with love and support and will be there to help him. He did not need drugs to suppress the stress
of dealing with new situations or to give him moments of pleasure. As he overcame his educational hurtles, he
grew in confidence and self esteem and he became capable of dealing with
increasing responsibilities until he was independently in charge of his patients. He kept sight of the big picture: staying healthy and maintaining his
interpersonal support. Why put his
mental acuity or body at risk with mind boggling drugs though these are more
readily available to him in purer forms than to the patient on the street? There is nothing free of consequences.
If a resident physician in training realizes all this and
knows why he is succeeding, it is puzzling why the doctors who provide drugs to
our fabulous entertaining artists have not counsel their patients to preclude
their killing themselves with substance abuse. These artists are special people too but they
are human and the rules of healthy living apply to them like the rest of us. Their
families, friends cannot stand by and let them ignore these rules and trust
doctors who treat with unlimited access to potentially harmful drugs.
We do not know the details of Whitney Houston’s problems but
she appeared at times to be anorexic.
Drugs are generally poorly effective for weight problems. She might have
benefited from behavioral counseling done very frequently in which the
therapist worked on her insight and motivation and simply tried to develop in
her an aversion to self destructive hedonistic impulses, like taking cocaine. In
the last moments of her life, Ms. Houston craved a “high” from that agent but
instead the drug constricted her coronary arteries which it often does. Her
heart became weak and she collapsed into a full bathtub and drowned. Ironically she was in one of the most
beautiful neighborhoods in the world on a Saturday afternoon. Instead of taking alcohol and cocaine into
the bathroom, she might have learned through counseling to avoid risk. She
could have said to one of her companions. “Let’s become inconspicuous and let’s take a
walk down Beverly Boulevard where there are some of the most beautiful houses
in Beverly Hills. Let’s go to the park down the street and watch the kids play
in the sand and the old men play bocce. I might want to talk to a few fans.” Can you image the mutual thrills and adulation
she would receive in that little park?
That would be a high greater than any provided by cocaine. If she took that walk in the sun that
afternoon with her friends, we might still be enjoying the sound of her genius.
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